m realllly mad at the kind of stuff going on around me. im not taking any names here...but lemme tell u, thanks to them, love and relationships have started to SCARE me...i mean, unko dekh key lagta hai...im better off alone !
its the worst thing if u were to b taken for granted, to have ur life royally ruled by ur boyfriend, partner blah blah... whoever ! to see the person u love the most hurt the hell out of u, both physically and emotionally...say things which u dont expect ur worst enemy to say...kills all the love n respect u have for them...they dont deserve it, trust me, they dont.
one thing i dont agree on is compromise. no, dont get me wrong, i dont mean that u be rigid always...but dont let the other person treat u like a door mat...dont u have any self respect, how on earth can someone swear at u ?? cant u just stand up for urself ??? kissi ko itna bhi sar pe nahi chadhana chahiye...haath uthaa ne ki himmat kaisey hoti hai logo ki ! i'd never ever take such treatment...pyaar vyaar apne jagah theek hai, but self respect bhi koi cheez hai...n im not giving up on that. but yaha baat meri nahi hai, isiliye id rather keep my not-required comments to myself.
but seriously, the way ppl ( i told ya, im not taking any names...so lets just call them ppl ) fight...or rather, fought today, scared the hell outa me...is this what girlfriends and boyfriends are supoosed to do ??? irritates me to see that they donot have anyyyyyy damn sense ki they might b hurting each others feelings....they just dont seem to care, but they r still together...beats my logic !
u dont have to actuallly get burnt to know that the fire is hot...same way, looking around at others, i have started to feel relationships suck...it better to be in the i-miss-u, i-want-u phase, at least it doesnt hurt....
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well as far as i m concerned m totally in accord with u in this topic..its better to b in a happy frndly relationship thn to call urself "more thn frnds" and endup fighting and hurting eachother..but ppl say tht if there r cons thn pros also of being in relationship...u find smone who cares fr u and pep-talks u when u need it..and what not(well i'd know if were in one ;-) )..neways nice one..
hey rishi !
thanks...yeah sure there r pros n cons, but they shud b equal ! what the use if u just keep hurting each other ???!!! :-P
thanks for reading and commenting !! :-D
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